How to know Mr. Right

You know I just sit and think why it is difficult for us girls to find that ‘perfect guy’. I mean why we can’t find that guy of our dreams. Is it something we are doing or is it just that there is no ‘perfect guy’ out there?

When I had a good thought about it, I came to some conclusions one of which I think we girls let our emotions take charge of us and we all have the fear of being alone. No one girl wants to be alone, we all want that one guy we can call our own. I have a little story to make you understand what I am trying to say.

Two friends, they trust each other so very much, they never hide anything from each other and they know each other’s families. We will assume their names are Sayo and Tito. Sayo broke up with her boyfriend of 2years because it was not working out, she told her close friend Tito about it and Tito thought it was a good idea. With time, Sayo was feeling lonely and could not take it anymore but these times her ex was still hanging in there and begging her to come back but because she was done with him she did not want to accept him. The guy did nothing horrible Sayo broke up because it was a long distance relationship and the guy in question was very insecure and very controlling.

During these lonely times for Sayo, heavens smiled at her one day, the day her friend Tito used her picture as DP on BBM then this guy Sayo had once met wanted her pin. Tito gave him and boom Sayo and the guy got acquainted (We will call the guy Fola). They are always talking to each other, if they are not chatting they are on the phone to each other or on Skype! It was that bad, it became an everyday thing and Sayo got so fond of Fola that she could not help herself. Note: she let her emotions take charge of her!!!!! After about few weeks of talking and all, Fola decided to pay Sayo a visit oh before that, Fola told her how and what he feels for her he told her how much he likes her and how much he thought he has been fulfilled since he started talking to her. This was like a dream come true for Sayo and she also professed her feelings to him. It was one of the best days of her life. They told each other how great they feel about each other. So the visiting part came in, Fola decided to come and spend some time with that girl he likes so much in other to get to know her better and they both decided that he could sleep over.

It all worked out well as planned, he came slept over and you know all the hugs and kisses part came in including cuddling (you know all these things can’t be prevented from happening) they had a very good weekend together but they had not started going out yet though Fola already asked her out and Sayo was planning to say yes to him when next he comes which was the coming week because they planned on seeing again.

As you will have it, before this next time of meeting, Fola sent a very long rather depressing message to Sayo explaining how he has rushed in to things and all that and how he thinks they need to stop talking because he needs to get his life together and sort himself out because he foresees himself cheating on her if they actually start something off together. It was a very sad time for Sayo because that was the last thing she was expecting from him, he seemed so real and true but guess she was wrong but she decided to be strong again and move on with her life. When all these happened, Sayo told her friend Tito and Tito said she thinks what 


Fola has done was the right thing because it was better than later when it will be more painful.

All these times, Sayo’s ex was still hanging there and was still begging her to come back to him but Sayo remained adamant even after her beloved Fola broke her heart she still dint want to go back to her ex because she did not feel anything for him anymore and she thought the best thing for them is to go their separate ways

So what mistake has been made here? Was Sayo too quick too like Fola or Fola was a bad person. What do you guys think of the story? Who is the Mr. Right Sayo should go for? Should she go back to her ex or should she wait for Fola to finish sorting his life out?